我是《家长》杂志的忠实读者。作为一名记者和主编,我感觉自己在事业上是成功的,可作为家长我却是一个失败者。我儿子今年13岁,刚刚升入初中。他从小学到现在一直厌学,上课不听讲,不能约束自己,考试成绩从来没有上过50分,最低时只有几分。他也不愿意看课外读物。无论怎样和他讲道理他都听不进去,他对自己也没有信心。我们这里的学校总是以考分论高低,可以说我的孩子是在老师的责骂声中成长的。加上我的不正确的教育方法,导致了他的厌学。 I am a loyal reader of Parents magazine. As a journalist and editor, I feel that I am successful in my career. Being a parent I am a loser. My son is 13 years old and has just entered junior high school. He has always been tired of learning since childhood, his class does not listen, can not restrain himself, the test scores have never been 50 points, the lowest when only a few points. He is also reluctant to read extra-curricular books. No matter how he reasoned he could not get in, he did not have faith in himself. Our school here is always based on the test scores, can be said that my child grew up in the teacher’s scolding. Coupled with my incorrect education methods, led to his tired of learning.