我们要理解孩子,还应该让孩子了解我们。我的儿子特别调皮,我花大半天才整理好的房间,他三五分钟就弄得一塌糊涂;他做错了事,我一举手,他就会说:“不好打人的,打人是坏蛋。”我要是打他,除了弄得他不开心我难过外,一点用处也没有。那么怎么达成母子之间的彼此理解呢?我想,要积极地参与孩子的生活,让孩子也了解妈妈的生活。由于孩子白天在幼儿园,因而经常与老师交谈、每天看活动室门口的“家长园地”就成了我了解儿子的一个好途径。小班开展角色游戏,我也在家里与他做这些游戏,有时我当 We have to understand the child, we should let the child know us. My son is particularly naughty, I spend most of the genius tidy up a good room, he thirty-five minutes on the mess; he did something wrong, I will hand it, he would say: “ It’s a bad guy. ”“ If I hit him, I will not be of any use except for making him unhappy. So how to achieve mutual understanding between mother and child do? I think, to actively participate in children’s lives, so that children also understand the mother’s life. As the child is in kindergarten during the day, he often talks to the teacher. Every day, looking at the ”Parents’ Corner" in the activity room door is a good way for me to know my son. Small classes to play character games, I also do these games with him at home, and sometimes I should