“老师,活着有什么意思啊?反正人总要死的,我想自杀。”听了这话,我大吃一惊。说这话的是我的学生小李,今年高二。心理交流室开设三年以来,我还是第一次听到这样的心声。经过调查,我发现,农村的青少年“爱感”的缺失十分严重,尤其是高中生。“爱感”的缺失导致了青少年忧郁孤僻,毫无理想,这种情况对青少年的发展是十分不利的。 “Teacher, what is the meaning of living ah? Anyway, people always want to die, I want to commit suicide.” “Listened to this, I was shocked. This is my student Mike, sophomore year. For the first time in three years since the psychoacoustic room was opened, I still hear such voices. After investigation, I found that there is a serious lack of ”love“ among rural adolescents, especially high school students. The absence of ”love feeling" has led to melancholy adolescences with no ideal. This situation is very unfavorable to the development of adolescents.