虽然中差生的平时表现不同,个性心理特征有异,但是,我相信他们有两点是相同的:第一,有自尊心;第二,有“自我实现”的需要。心理学研究证明,当人的需要得到满足时,就会产生喜悦、兴奋和快活感;反之,则会产生沮丧、不快、愤怒和哀伤感;因此,只有充分地理解、尊重中差生的心理需要,并努力地予以满足,师生的心灵才会沟通,我们的教育和劝说才易于被他们所接受。要想满足中差生的心理需要,就必须有意识地运用心理相容的原则。所谓心理相容,是指双方心理的协调一致,其言谈举止、思想观点、个性品格、风度气质等为对方心理所接受。至少在一个具体的方面被对方所认可。依据这条原则,我们就要特别注 Although the poor performance of middle school students is different, and their personal psychological characteristics are different, I believe that they have the same two points: First, there is self-esteem; second, there is a need for “self-fulfillment”. Psychology studies have shown that when people’s needs are met, they will have joy, excitement, and happiness; on the contrary, they will have depression, unhappiness, anger and sadness; therefore, only the psychological needs of poor students will be fully understood and respected. , And strive to be satisfied, the hearts of teachers and students will communicate, our education and persuasion is easy for them to accept. To meet the psychological needs of poor students, we must consciously use the principle of psychological compatibility. The so-called psychological compatibility refers to the psychological harmony between the two sides. Their speech behavior, ideological views, personality style, grace and temperament are accepted by each other’s psychology. At least one specific aspect is recognized by the other party. According to this principle, we must pay special attention