在现实的教育中,因过度地追求分数,一些学校并没有成为学生的快乐天堂,一部分教师也没有成为学生的知心朋友。越来越多的学生在渐渐失去他们应该有的童真和活泼,原本快乐的学习活动变成了学生们的严重负担。有的学生不愿进学校,有的学生惧怕见老师;少数教师漠视学生的健康,眼中只有分数而没有学生;部分学生家长只关注孩子的学业成绩而轻视孩子的道德品质,他们在与孩子的对话中,也常会把孩子送进学校或者把孩子交到老师那里训话作为一种惩罚的方式。这些情况的 In realistic education, some schools do not become happy haven for students due to excessive pursuit of scores, and some teachers have not become close friends of their students. More and more students are gradually losing their innocence and lively deeds. The original learning activities have become a serious burden on students. Some students are reluctant to go to school and some students are afraid to see the teacher. Some teachers ignore the students’ health, only have scores and no students in their eyes. Some parents pay attention only to children’s academic performance and neglect children’s moral qualities. In conversations, it is also commonplace to send children into school or hand their children to the teacher as a form of punishment. These situations