教师与学生关系的性质对学生自觉性和自尊心的形成有极重要的意义.教育工作的实际经验指出,假定教师能对个别学生表扬他的任何积极方面,那末,学生就能开始注意并培养自已的这些优点. 在很多情况中,学生对自己力量没有自信心的原因,就是在教师方面对他们的能力估计不足。这个事实指出了教师与学生建立的关系上所产生的感化作用是多麽巨大,它不仅能够破坏个别学生,而且还能破坏全级学生对自己力量的信任.女教师纳·克,为了对自己的工作做得不好作辩护,经常向学生们说,他们没有能力,总是不肯好好学习等话。结果,学生们本来能够学习得很好的,丧失了自信心,这样,他们就学习得更坏,成为学校里成绩最坏的一班。这就是说:女教师纳·克只看见了学生的弱点。但是在某一时期内,这个女教师的位置上派来了另一位新教师,她很有经验而且也富有钻研心.最初几天,她注意了学生思想上已有的习惯,和他们一班所以在“学校中最坏”的原因。她就在班上开始培养学生对自己力量的自信心.她从思想上去影响学生,告诉他们,如果能够坚持和系统地工作,便会学习得很好.女教师与学生们的新的关系和正确地组织教学工作,获得了非常良好的成绩.学生们对待自己也不同了,他们信任了自己的力量,对未来的发展前途表现了无限向往.这一班“眼看着”有了转变。过了几个月,学生们自己 The nature of the relationship between teacher and student is of great importance to the formation of students' self-esteem and self-esteem.The practical experience of education shows that if teachers can praise any positive aspect of his students, then students can begin to pay attention and develop themselves In many cases, the reason students are not confident in their own strength is to under-assess teachers' ability to do so. This fact points out that the probationary effect of the teacher-student relationship can not only destroy individual students but also undermine the trust of the whole class of students in their own power. The female teacher, Na Ke, Work well done to defend, often to the students that they have no ability, always refused to study well and so on. As a result, students were able to learn well and lose confidence so that they could learn even worse and become the worst in school. This means that female teacher Na Ke only saw the student's weakness. But for some time, the new teacher was sent to the position of the female teacher, who was both experienced and well-researched, and for the first few days she noticed the habits of the students, one with them The reason classes are “the worst in school”. She started to develop students' self-confidence in their own power in the class.She influenced students thoughtfully and told them that they would learn well if they could work persistently and systematically.The new relationship between female teachers and students and Correctly organize teaching work and achieved very good results.Students also treat themselves differently, they trust their own strength, the future development of the future demonstrated infinite desire .This class “seeing” has changed. After a few months, the students themselves