一、问题的提出当代中学生成长过程中,优越的生活物质条件、众星捧月式的家庭氛围、望子女成龙成凤的殷切愿望、缺乏劳动的磨练、缺少体验生活以及勤俭传统的丧失……出现了一些孩子唯我至尊、自我为中心、志趣博而难专、怯懦脆弱、执拗不驯、冷峻等不良的性格倾向,进而给这些 First, the question raised During the growth of contemporary high school students, the superior living material conditions, the stars holding the moon-like family atmosphere, the aspirations of their children Cheng Long Cheng Feng, lack of labor to hone, lack of experience of life and the loss of thrift and traditions ... ... there have been some children’s only me supreme, self-centered, self-interested Bo, and difficult, timid and fragile, stubborn, solemn and other unfriendly personality tendencies, and then to these