我儿子进幼儿园后,老师说:“你儿子智力不错,可就是生活自理能力太差,动作发展缓慢、不协调。”听完这话,我内疚之情难以言表。这不是孩子的过错,而是我对孩子溺爱,事事包办代替所造成的后果。我对孩子从小就非常注重其智力的开发:给他讲故事;教他学 After my son went to kindergarten, the teacher said: “Your son is good at intelligence, but his ability to take care of himself is too poor. His actions are slow and uncoordinated.” After hearing this, my guilt was indescribable. This is not a child’s fault, but my child spoiled, everything replaced by the consequences. As a child, I paid great attention to the development of my intelligence: taught him a story and taught him science