民间有句俗语:“不打不骂不成人,棍棒下面出好人。”“责打”是我国教育孩子用得最多的、公认的“有效方法”。然而,心理学的研究表明,经常责打孩子,不仅容易失手使孩子致伤、致残,甚至发生致死的悲剧,更多的是伤害了孩子的心理,造成难以纠正的心理偏差。 Folk saying goes: “Do not scold not scolded adults, stick out a good man.” “Blame” is China’s most widely used education children, recognized as “effective method.” However, psychological studies show that often punishing children is not only easy to miss the child traumatized, disabled, and even the tragedy of death, but also hurt the child’s psychology, resulting in difficult to correct the psychological bias.