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在超市、商场里,我们不难看到如下的场面:——孩子拉着大人的衣襟,嘴里不断地说:“给我买这个汽车吧,我想要嘛!”在孩子无休止的纠缠下,大人最终无奈地答应:“好好,买。行了吧?”——孩子在其购物要求未能如愿时,无所顾忌地大哭大嚷,不肯离开,家长则在尴尬中或是勃然大怒, 斥责孩子;或是强装笑脸,哄逗孩子,以许诺来使孩子终止哭闹。为此,不少家长都抱怨孩子太不懂事。事实上,面对孩子无休止的购买欲望,家长如果总向孩子作出让步,就易使孩子产生“什么都要给我”的心理,并不断得到强化。而电视广告的刺激,也使许多家长误认为多买东西会使孩子快乐,从而在
In the supermarkets, shopping malls, we can easily see the following scenes: - The child pulled the adult skirt, his mouth continued to say: “Give me this car, I want it!” In the endless entangled children , The adults finally helplessly agreed: “Well, buy it. OK?” - Children in their shopping fails to do so, cynically cry, do not want to leave, parents are in embarrassment or sudden Furious, reprimanding children; or strong smile, coax tease children, with a promise to make the child stop crying. To this end, many parents complain about children too naive. In fact, in the face of children’s endless desire to buy, if parents always make concessions to their children, they are apt to make their children have the mentality of “what to give me” and continue to be strengthened. The stimulation of television advertising, but also many parents mistakenly believe that more shopping will make children happy, so that