在“尽孝”一事上,我们似乎已经习惯了等待。生活中,我们确实面临着许许多多的问题:毕业了,我们要去远方打拼事业;结婚后,我们要组建独立的家庭,在矛盾纠结的婆媳关系中挣扎;工作时,我们有永远做不完的事情,于是与许多的假期失之交臂;现在和未来,我们有很多想法与父母不同甚至相悖……而“孝”之一事就成了一座大山,结结实实横亘在眼前。在不停的自责、反省中,我们总找不到两全的办法。 We seem to be accustomed to waiting on the issue of “filial piety.” In life, we do face many problems: we have graduated, we have to go far to work hard, and after marriage, we have to set up an independent family and struggle against the contradictions and relationships between mother and daughter. At work, we have to do forever Now, in the future, we have many ideas that are different from those of our parents or even contrary to one another ... And one of the “filial piety” has become a big mountain that stands in solidarity. In non-stop self-blame, introspection, we always find two ways.