一位老友几天前被人刺伤住进重症监护室,至少有五个朋友向我通报了这一消息,结束前总不忘捎上一句:“你多年前预言他会因他的儿子而遭遇大祸,终于应验了!”对于这迟早要发生的悲剧,我一点预测成功的成就感也没有,相反有种忍不住的悲凉。我不会算命,我只是从一些小细节中推测——我总觉得这位朋友与孩子相处和教育的方式,会出大问题。那位受伤的老友像很多父母一样,急切望子成龙。他对儿子的教育非常重视,儿子还没学会说话,他就开始给他讲成功学故事。他厌憎那些把孩子教得弱不经风 An old friend was stabbed a few days ago admitted to intensive care unit, at least five friends informed me of this news, before the end never forget to take the last sentence: Son suffered a disaster, and finally fulfilled! "For this tragedy to happen sooner or later, I am a little prediction of the success of the sense of accomplishment, on the contrary there can not help but sad. I am not fortunate, I just speculated from some small details - I always feel that this friend get along with the child and education, will be a big problem. The wounded old friend, like many parents, eagerly hopes for success. He attaches great importance to his son’s education, his son has not learned to speak, he began to tell him a successful learning story. He hates those who teach their children weak and unsympathetic