朋友告诉我这样一个故事: 一位产妇生下一对双胞胎,没过多久,其中一个婴儿却夭折了。那产妇顿觉天昏地暗,难以接受这残酷的现实,成天以泪洗面。在月子还没坐满的时候,她已彻底地崩溃,她选择了一个毁灭的行为——自杀。而另一位产妇经历了同样的遭遇,但是,她却选择了另一种态度。她给自己找了一个快乐的理由:既然上天注定只给我一个孩子,那我就用全部的 My friend told me a story: a mother gave birth to a pair of twins, and it did not take long before one of the babies died. That maternal sensation was dusk dark, hard to accept this cruel reality, all day tear to wash face. When the moon was not full, she had collapsed completely and she chose a devastating act of suicide. Another maternal experienced the same situation, but she chose another attitude. She found himself a happy reason: Since God is doomed to give me only a child, then I use all