当你抱怨孩子不尊重你,当你为孩子不礼貌的言行生气时,你是否想过,如果你这样对待孩子,孩子的感受会怎样?你是否想过,孩子的这些言行、态度,其实是平时从你身上学来的?或许,你忽略了这些,但孩子不会忽略。作家伯纳·马拉马德曾说过:“尊重,只有播种才会有收获。” When you complain that your child does not respect you and you become angry with the child’s impolite words and deeds, have you ever wondered what your child feels like if you treat the child like this? Have you ever thought that these words and deeds of the child are in fact Usually learned from you? Perhaps, you ignore these, but the child will not ignore. The writer Bernard Maramad once said: “Respect, it will be harvested only if it is planted.”