我们在初为人师时,最常听到的一句教诲便是要对孩子充满爱心。大多数教师一直这样信仰着,也一直这样践行着。我们没有反身自问,为什么要去爱孩子?我们只是把这一教诲当成一个不言自明的真理,一个不需要仔细深究与思量的行动准则。可是有一天,我看了弗洛姆的一本书,我惊诧于其提 When we first became teachers, the most common teaching we heard was to be full of love for our children. Most teachers have been so faithful, it has been practiced in this way. We did not reflexively ask ourselves why we should love children? We just regard this teaching as a self-evident truth, a code of conduct that does not require careful study and consideration. One day, however, I looked at Fromm’s book, and I was surprised at it