最近,几位高中生家长找我聊天。她们感觉很困惑:为什么自己这么辛苦做妈妈,孩子不领情;为什么反复想要他们改正坏习惯,他们就是不听,还对着干;为什么和孩子的冲突不断升级;为什么孩子不听话了?妈妈们历数着孩子的种种不好,担心这样下去孩子们会一事无成;然后想要我给出一个解决方法?其实,这几位家长的孩子都很优秀,学习成绩也不错。如果保持下去,考上一本或以上都没有什么大问题。可是妈妈们为什么还这么烦恼呢?我听着她 Recently, several high school parents asked me to chat. They feel puzzled: Why do they so hard to be mothers, children do not appreciate; why they want to correct their bad habits, they just do not listen, but also to do; why the conflict with the child escalated; why children disobedient mom? All kinds of poor children, worried that going on like this children will succeed; and then want me to give a solution? In fact, these parents are good children, academic performance is not bad. If you keep on, one or more admitted to no major problems. But why moms are so upset? I listen to her