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《礼记》里说道:“孝子之养也,乐其心,不违其志。”意思是说孝子扶养父母,要让他们心情愉快,不忤逆父母的意思。前段时间,同窗好友孩子周岁摆宴庆生,一时抽不开身,只得在电话这头表示祝贺。攀谈了一会儿,他说出一句让我十分意外的话:“当家才懂油盐贵,养儿方知父母恩。”要是这样的话从别人的嘴里说出来,我并不感到诧异,但这位好友,可是一位5年未曾踏入家门一步的“不孝子”。
“Book of Rites” said: “The filial piety is also, their music, does not violate their wishes. ” Means that filial parents to support their parents, to make them feel happy, do not reverse the meaning of their parents. Some time ago, my classmate friends and children took a birthday party, and for a while did not get out of my body. I only had to congratulate on the phone. After talking for a while, he uttered a remark that surprised me very much: “It is only when the family understands that the oil is more expensive and the parents know the grace of the mother.” “I would not be surprised if such words were said from other people’s mouths, This friend, but one who has not entered the family for 5 years ”not filial son ".