当我与家长朋友们聊起孩子的教育问题时,很多家长朋友总会说:“我以前的做法不对,我以前做错了。”于是,我对他们说:“不是你们错了,也不是你们的方法不对,只能说你们的做法的结果不是你想要的,或者说你想要的结果没有通过你的方法而获得。” When I talked with my parents and friends about the child’s education, many parents and friends would always say: “I used to be wrong. I used to do something wrong.” Then I said to them, “You are not wrong. It’s not that your method is wrong, but you can only say that the result of your practice is not what you want, or that the result you want is not obtained through your method."