初中时期是青少年健康成长的关键时期,此时的学生正处于“危险年龄”阶段。由于生理上的迅速变化,加之初中学生以自我为中心、心理脆弱、家庭的残缺等现象日渐凸显,打破了学生生理和心理之间的平衡,也打破了学生心理诸因素之间的平衡。一方面来自社会、学校、教师和家长的压力不断升级,使学生疲于应付;再者,我国独生子女以自我为中心的问题也显得越来越严重;更甚者,由于家庭的残缺,如父母离异、丧父或丧母的单亲家庭、隔代 Junior high school is a crucial period for the healthy growth of adolescents, when students are at “dangerous age” stage. Due to rapid physiological changes, combined with the fact that middle school students are self-centered, their psychology is fragile and their families are in short supply, they have broken the balance between students ’psychology and psychology, and also broke the balance between students’ psychological factors. On the one hand, the pressure from society, schools, teachers and parents escalates, so that students are struggling to deal with them. Moreover, the issue of one-child self-centeredness in our country is also becoming more and more serious. What is more, due to the incompleteness of families, Parents divorce, widowed or mum’s single-parent families, from generation to generation