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许多家长认为,夫妻间的争论会破坏孩子幼小心灵中和谐美满的印象,使其反感,久而久之,将不利于两代人之间的情感交流,从而使孩子逐渐疏远父母。然而,事实上家庭争论在所难免。比如父母在家庭理财方面的意见不一;或对子女教育方式上产生分歧;抑或对某种社会现象各持己见等。由此引发的争论会对孩子产生意想不到的效果,使他们逐渐意识到这是一个多元化的世界,生活的本身就是一个矛盾体。“年轻的父母们,下一次当你与爱人争论时,不妨让孩子在一旁观看,也许他能从中学到些什么。”这是一所加拿大大学心理学研究人员的最新发现。他们为了研究家庭生活对孩子的影响力,特别对
Many parents believe that disputes between husband and wife will undermine the harmonious and happy impression of the young child’s mind and make them disgusted. Over time, this will not be conducive to the emotional exchange between the two generations so that the child gradually alienates their parents. However, in fact family arguments are inevitable. For example, parents may have different views on family financial management, or they may disagree on their children’s education or hold their own views on certain social phenomena. The resulting controversy will have an unexpected effect on children, making them gradually realize that this is a diverse world, and life itself is a paradox. “Young Parents, next time you’re arguing with your lover, let’s have your child watching, maybe what he can learn from.” This is the latest finding from a psychology researcher at a Canadian university. They are especially interested in studying the influence of family life on children