苏霍姆林斯基说:“教育的效果取决于学校家庭的一致性。”当下,老师们常常感叹教育工作的不易:学生难教、难管,家长难配合。导致这一问题的主要原因在于,学生对老师的教育工作缺乏认同感,家长对学校的教育工作缺乏信任感,进而老师在教育工作中也缺乏获得感、幸福感。在现代教育生态环境下,缺少学生的认同、家长的支持,只做围墙里的教育永远不可能取得真正的成功。与其自以为是,在抱怨中艰难前行,不如以积极的心态,寻求解决问题的办 Suhomlinski said: “The effect of education depends on the consistency of school families. ” Nowadays, teachers often lament that education is not easy: students are hard to teach, difficult to manage, and parents are hard to cooperate with. The main reason for this problem is that students lack a sense of identity about the teacher’s education, parents lack a sense of trust in the school’s education, and teachers lack a sense of empathy and happiness in their education. In the modern educational environment, the lack of student identity, parental support and education in the fence alone will never make any real success. It is better to seek a solution to the problem with a positive attitude than to be self-righteous and difficult to complain