“渐行渐远”是有来历的。欧阳修在早期词作《玉楼春》中有:“渐行渐远渐无书,水阔鱼沉何处问。”该词写的是闺中思妇的离愁别绪,这两句是写丈夫的足迹无处寻找,思妇欲求无路、欲诉无门的愁苦。“书”指的是书信。书信是古人天各一方时唯一的联系方式,一旦雁绝鱼沉,就如人间蒸发。思妇不知道丈夫的行踪,是远是近只能猜 “Climbing away” has its origin. Ouyang Xiu in the early words “Yulou Spring” has: “Climbing gradually getting away from the book, where the water fish Shen Shen asked. ” The word is written in the middle of the Sifu woman’s separation, these two sentences are written Her husband’s footprints are nowhere to be found, and the woman is eager to find no way. “Book” refers to the letter. Correspondence is the only way of contact between the ancients and the heavens. Once the wild goose fish sinks, it is as if the world is evaporating. Thinking women do not know where their husbands are, they can only guess