面对正在埋头做作业的孩子,家长凑近轻轻地说上一句:“呀,这字写得真棒!”回报家长的一定是孩子更加认真刻苦地学习。对偶尔尝试叠被乐趣的女儿,家长热情地赞扬一句:“哟,女儿会替妈妈做事了。”随之而来的也许是家长意想不到的惊喜——女儿竟乘兴把房间打扫得干干净净。这就是赞扬的妙用。清朝颜元说:“数子十过不如奖子一长。”虽然每一个孩子的性格不尽相同,但他们对“赞赏”的渴望却是相似的。我国著名的赏识教育专家周弘先生说:“就精神生活而言,每个幼小的生命仿佛就是为了得到赏识而来到人间 The face of the child is working hard at home, parents gently approached the sentence: “Yeah, this word is written awesome!” The return of parents must be more serious and painstaking child learning. To the daughter who occasionally tries to be overjoyed, parents enthusiastically praised: “Yo, my daughter will do something for my mum.” It may come as a surprise from her parents - her daughter cleaned up the room cleanly . This is the magic of praise. Yan Yuan of the Qing Dynasty said: “The number of children is not as good as that of a winner.” Although each child’s personality is different, their desire for “appreciation” is similar. Mr. Zhou Hong, a famous expert in appreciation education in our country, said: "As far as spiritual life is concerned, every young life seems to come to the world in order to be appreciated