在日常生活中,一些父母发现孩子有过错时,常常不问缘由地大声呵斥、责骂,甚至大发雷霆。在他们看来,高调厉声训斥才是对孩子的严格要求。其实,这样做往往适得其反。按照儿童的心理特点,用“低声细语”的悄悄对话方式教育孩子往往效果更好。孩子处在生长发育阶段,自控能力较差, In daily life, when some parents find their children faulty, they often shout, scold, and even furious about reasons. In their opinion, high-profile reprimand is the strict demands on children. In fact, this is often counterproductive. In accordance with the psychological characteristics of children, the use of “whisper” quiet way to teach children tend to be better. Children are in the stage of growth and development, poor self-control,