有这样三个故事,主人公因为害怕挫折,放弃了自己的事业、爱好乃至生命。1有位曾经风光的总经理,在一次上台发言时,突然产生害怕感,于是改变主意,自已不上去,要自己的秘书上台代表讲话。众人不解,跟踪至厕所,看见他坐在马桶上喘大气,急忙将其送到医院急救,医生检查后并没发现任何异常。此后,他再也不发言,不敢对视他人的眼神。家人以为他“中邪”了。无数次高价为他请来神婆驱鬼,带他上佛地念经,病症却丝毫没有改善。他愤怒时,在家经常发脾气骂人,摔东西;不去上班,也不听人劝,任由自己沉沦。两年过去,他好像变了个人,生意也由此一落千丈。经过了解,原来他因为“口吃”曾被领导辱骂过,因而自尊心受到伤害而产生了心理障碍。 There are three such stories, the hero because of fear of setbacks, give up their own careers, hobbies and even life. 1 There was a once general manager who once came to power and made a sudden sense of fear when he came to power. So he changed his mind and did not go up by himself. He asked his own secretary to come to power on behalf of the party to speak. Everyone puzzled, tracking to the toilet, saw him sitting on the toilet on the gas, hurry to send it to the hospital for emergency treatment, the doctor checked and found no abnormalities. Since then, he no longer speak, afraid to see others’ eyes. His family thought he was “evil”. Countless times for him to invite the gods to exorcism, take him to the Buddha to read the scriptures, but the symptoms did not improve. When he was angry, he often angry at the house cursing people, throwing things; do not go to work, do not listen to people, allow yourself to sink. Two years later, he seems to have changed individuals, business has plummeted. After understanding, the original because he “stuttering ” has been insulted by the leadership, so self-esteem hurt and had a psychological barrier.