对于他人取得的成绩、做出的贡献,或者对于那些在学习、工作上走在自己前面的人,是心悦诚服,虚心学习,热情赞扬,还是妒起谤生,甚至排挤陷害,这是衡量一个人心灵美丑、品德高下的重要标志。古往今来,嫉妒者虽是少数,但它的危害却是不可忽视的。嫉妒,制造不和,妨碍团结,摧残人才,抑制创新,损人又害己,实属社会和人生进步的一大障碍。无怪乎在两千五百多年前,孔老夫子就发出呼吁:“君子成人之美,不成人之 Contribution to the achievements of others, or for those who are learning, work in front of their own people, be honest, open-minded, enthusiastic praise, or envy slander, or even put an end to the crowd, which is a measure of a person Beautiful beauty and ugliness, an important symbol of moral character. Since ancient times, envy is a minority, but its harm can not be ignored. Jealousy, creating discord, hindering unity, devastating talent, restraining innovation, harming others and harming themselves are a major obstacle to social and life progress. No wonder more than two thousand five hundred years ago, Confucius Confucius made an appeal: ”gentleman adult beauty, not adult