许多父母和爷爷、奶奶喜欢包办孩子的生活事务,孩子要拿碗碟,不让,怕打碎;孩子要倒开水,不让,怕烫着。总之,什么事也不让孩子做,不准孩子动手动脚。这样的结果,对孩子的发展必定会有许多害处:第一,养成孩子从小依赖别人的习惯,缺乏独立生活的能力;第二,孩子缺乏劳动的观念,容易形成懒惰、怕苦的不良品德;第三,孩子的手脚得不到训练,他的大脑也会变得愚 Many parents and grandparents like to organize their children’s affairs of life. Children need dishes to prevent them from breaking down. In short, do not let children do anything, do not allow children to move their hands and feet. Such results will certainly have many harmful effects on the development of children. First, they will develop their children’s dependence on other people’s habits and lack the ability to live independently. Second, children lack the concept of labor and may easily become lazy and afraid of bad moral character Third, children’s hands and feet are not trained, his brain can become foolish